Lofs Course | Marriage Capsule

2.20b Bonus Results – Sex

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The four temperaments in sex

All temperaments can become great lovers! The key to this greatness is understanding each other better, appreciating the strengths and overcoming weaknesses with grace. Remember: love gives! It helps so much when you understand why your partner acts in a certain why. Once you know these things, you can cooperate with each other instead of clashing and trying to change the other.

* Important Definition – Guardrail: The definition of a guardrail is a rail at the edge of something such as a road or a cliff that prevents vehicles or people from falling off and getting hurt. They are strategically placed for your safety. A personal guardrail is a standard of behavior that becomes a matter of conscience. It’s the non-negotiables in your life, the red lights that say DANGER, STAY OUT. Put these up and adhere to them at all times to ensure that your relationship is safe.

Below you will find more information on how each temperament thinks/acts in the bedroom. Make sure that you take a look a both your and your partner’s main temperaments.

*** These insights can ensure a great sex life! Study them carefully!

The different temperaments in the bedroom:

2.17 Test your knowledge

Test your knowledge

Complete and earn 10 points!

Each statement has one correct answer. If you choose the incorrect answer, you have the option to click the “retry arrow”.

2.6 Are they all equal?

Are they all equal?

No temperament is better than another! They are all equally strong and challenged.

Most people will find themselves to be a blend of two or even three temperaments. Unless you are extremely strong in one temperament, your second temperament will play a significant role in your behavior. It might offset some weaknesses or it can intensify them. One temperament will usually be more dominant than another but the ratio could be as close as a 60/40 combination. The intensity of a temperament will determine how much of that temperament traits you display. If your strengths are extremely strong, you are likely to have very strong weaknesses as well. It all comes down to balance.

Temperament combinations will enhance and/or offset strengths and weaknesses.

If you are, for example, an extroverted Ocean combined with an introverted Lake, these two temperaments will offset each other and your extrovert tendencies will be calmed. But when the extroverted Ocean combines with the extroverted Fountain, your volume settings can go way up! Some temperaments complement each other, while others blend and some are quite the opposite. You will find this not only in yourself but also in your partner. We all possess a toolbox of strengths that will help us grow stronger where we are weak, as individuals and as a couple.

Your profile results will tell you what your combinations are. The stronger you are in a temperament, the more you will identify with that specific temperament. Some characteristics might not seem applicable. Not everybody displays all the characteristics of a particular temperament. If you don’t believe it’s true, ask someone you trust if they see that characteristic in you. We often have blind spots in our lives. Things we don’t even realize we do but everyone else is aware of it. Be careful not to get hurt in the process of uncovering blind spots. It’s perfectly normal not to be 100% self-aware. LOFS will give you an opportunity to become an even better version of yourself.

The goal of identifying temperaments isn’t to label you or put you in a box. It helps you understand yourself and your partner better with the purpose of respecting, honoring, accepting and helping each other. Once we are able to pinpoint our strengths and weaknesses, we can live more confidently through our strengths and we can work on our weaknesses together.

2.1 What you will learn in this level

A quick overview of LOFS:

What you will

discover

as you navigate through LOFS :

1) What are temperaments all about?

2) Is there an ideal temperament I need to have?

3) Uncover your own temperament:

Are you an Ocean or a Lake, Snow or Fountain?

4) Get to know your partner’s temperament

5) Life at home with your Ocean, Lake, Snow, Fountain

6) How to cope with your differences & do life together

7) 5 rules to coping better with marriage stressors

8) Bonus: Your temperament & communication

9) Bonus: Can all temperaments be great lovers?

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2.8 LOFS x 2

Take turns in doing the LOFS Temperament tests below. Partner 1 will start, do all 48 questions and see their results, before Partner 2 will start, do all 48 questions and see their results.

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	Yes	Sometimes	No
	Yes	Sometimes	No
1. Do you usually laugh out loud when someone tells you a funny story?
2. Do you normally eat faster than other people even when there is no reason to hurry?
3. After you have purchased an expensive article, do you often wonder whether you made the right choice?
4. Would you generally prefer to stay at home, rather than go out visiting friends?
5. Do you enjoy flirting innocently with members of the opposite sex?
6. Do you usually make up your own mind regardless of what other people might think of your decision?
7. Is it important for you that everything at home is tidy and in its proper place?
8. Are you generally easy-going and don’t get upset easily?
9. Do you often gesticulate with your hands when you talk to someone?
10. Do you usually express your opinions forcefully and confidently?
11. Do you occasionally feel that other people expect you to do too much?
12. Do you usually spend more time listening to people rather than talking to them?
13. Do other people usually know what you are thinking and feeling?
14. Do you usually show your impatience when someone keeps you waiting?
15. After you have completed an important task, do you often feel that you should have done it better?
16. Do you mostly keep your opinions to yourself during a group discussion?
17. Do you often tell jokes and funny stories to your friends?
18. Do you usually plan most of your activities well ahead of time?
19. Do you generally prefer to work behind the scenes rather than be on centre stage?
20. Do you generally plan your purchases carefully rather than buy on impulse?
21. When you feel down, do you normally try to find someone to cheer you up?
22. Do you generally find it difficult to express sympathy and compassion towards someone who has lost a loved one?
23. Do you often blame yourself for things that have gone wrong?
24. Are you inclined to back down in a disagreement, rather than get involved in an argument?
25. Do you generally enjoy going to parties and social get-togethers?
26. When you have made a social blunder, can you normally forget about it quite easily?
27. Do you usually find it difficult to make up your mind when shopping for clothes?
28. Are you inclined to suppress your anger/hurt because you prefer to avoid any open conflict with the other person?
29. Do you often say and do things on the spur of the moment?
30. Do you usually find yourself wanting to take charge in a workgroup?
31. Do you usually prefer to do a task yourself rather than leave it to someone else?
32. Do you usually remain calm when faced with a crisis?
33. Do you often find yourself rushing to get to a place on time?
34. When people give you a compliment, do you usually believe them?
35. Do you often keep quiet for fear that people might criticise or laugh at your point of view?
36. Do you normally avoid going up to strangers at a social gathering and introducing yourself?
37. Do you often find it difficult to refuse people when they ask you for money?
38. Do you generally function at your best when you are under pressure and have to make quick decisions ?
39. Do you frequently think about the past and the course that your life might have taken?
40. Do you normally say witty things with a dry sense of humour?
41. Are you inclined to do most of the talking when in conversation with a friend?
42. Do you generally find that getting a task done is more important than taking other people’s feelings into consideration?
43. Do you often wish you had done things differently in the past?
44. Are you inclined to postpone unpleasant tasks that have to be performed?
45. Do you usually express your affection by touching or hugging the other person?
46. Do you mostly arrive on time for functions and appointments?
47. Do you often worry about what other people might think of you?
48. Do you generally prefer to leave the decision-making at home to someone else?

	Yes	Sometimes	No
	Yes	Sometimes	No
1. Do you usually laugh out loud when someone tells you a funny story?
2. Do you normally eat faster than other people even when there is no reason to hurry?
3. After you have purchased an expensive article, do you often wonder whether you made the right choice?
4. Would you generally prefer to stay at home, rather than go out visiting friends?
5. Do you enjoy flirting innocently with members of the opposite sex?
6. Do you usually make up your own mind regardless of what other people might think of your decision?
7. Is it important for you that everything at home is tidy and in its proper place?
8. Are you generally easy-going and don’t get upset easily?
9. Do you often gesticulate with your hands when you talk to someone?
10. Do you usually express your opinions forcefully and confidently?
11. Do you occasionally feel that other people expect you to do too much?
12. Do you usually spend more time listening to people rather than talking to them?
13. Do other people usually know what you are thinking and feeling?
14. Do you usually show your impatience when someone keeps you waiting?
15. After you have completed an important task, do you often feel that you should have done it better?
16. Do you mostly keep your opinions to yourself during a group discussion?
17. Do you often tell jokes and funny stories to your friends?
18. Do you usually plan most of your activities well ahead of time?
19. Do you generally prefer to work behind the scenes rather than be on centre stage?
20. Do you generally plan your purchases carefully rather than buy on impulse?
21. When you feel down, do you normally try to find someone to cheer you up?
22. Do you generally find it difficult to express sympathy and compassion towards someone who has lost a loved one?
23. Do you often blame yourself for things that have gone wrong?
24. Are you inclined to back down in a disagreement, rather than get involved in an argument?
25. Do you generally enjoy going to parties and social get-togethers?
26. When you have made a social blunder, can you normally forget about it quite easily?
27. Do you usually find it difficult to make up your mind when shopping for clothes?
28. Are you inclined to suppress your anger/hurt because you prefer to avoid any open conflict with the other person?
29. Do you often say and do things on the spur of the moment?
30. Do you usually find yourself wanting to take charge in a workgroup?
31. Do you usually prefer to do a task yourself rather than leave it to someone else?
32. Do you usually remain calm when faced with a crisis?
33. Do you often find yourself rushing to get to a place on time?
34. When people give you a compliment, do you usually believe them?
35. Do you often keep quiet for fear that people might criticise or laugh at your point of view?
36. Do you normally avoid going up to strangers at a social gathering and introducing yourself?
37. Do you often find it difficult to refuse people when they ask you for money?
38. Do you generally function at your best when you are under pressure and have to make quick decisions ?
39. Do you frequently think about the past and the course that your life might have taken?
40. Do you normally say witty things with a dry sense of humour?
41. Are you inclined to do most of the talking when in conversation with a friend?
42. Do you generally find that getting a task done is more important than taking other people’s feelings into consideration?
43. Do you often wish you had done things differently in the past?
44. Are you inclined to postpone unpleasant tasks that have to be performed?
45. Do you usually express your affection by touching or hugging the other person?
46. Do you mostly arrive on time for functions and appointments?
47. Do you often worry about what other people might think of you?
48. Do you generally prefer to leave the decision-making at home to someone else?

2.20b Bonus Results – Sex

Bonus!

The four temperaments in sex

The different temperaments in the bedroom:

2.17 Test your knowledge

Test your knowledge

Complete and earn 10 points!

2.6 Are they all equal?

Are they all equal?

2.1 What you will learn in this level

A quick overview of LOFS:

2.8 LOFS x 2

Partner 1....

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Your LOFS Temperament Results (hers)

Please make a note of these results somewhere, as we'll be referring back to them often .

Your Main temperament

Your Secondary temperament

What your unique combination looks like.

Peaceful Lake

Sensational Snow

Powerful Ocean

Bubbly Fountain

SnowFountain

SnowOcean

SnowLake

LakeSnow

LakeOcean

LakeFountain

OceanFountain

OceanSnow

OceanLake

FountainOcean

FountainSnow

FountainLake

Thank you for completing the LOFS Temperament Test!